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Book Recommendations
10 Best IFS and Parts Work Books (From Beginner to Deep Dive)
A curated guide to the best Internal Family Systems and parts work books, from beginner-friendly introductions to deeper trauma-focused reads.

Book Reviews
Reparenting the Inner Child: Nicole LePera's Most Personal Book Yet
Nicole LePera's new book cuts through the noise on inner child work. Here's an honest review of what she gets right, what slows down, and who should read it.

App Comparisons
Attached vs. Paired: Which App Is Better for Fixing Your Relationship?
The two apps take different approach — one of them helps even when your partner isn't ready. Here's our comparison.
General
Insecure Attachment Is Quietly Costing Your Company Millions
One hidden way your employees relate to people at work could secretly be costing your company millions.

General
We are All Punch. What Punch the Monkey Teaches Us About Trust & Why You Relate to Him
What this little monkey can tell you about your relationships, and why IKEA's plush toy being sold out is worrying
Self-Reflection
Why Avoidants Pull Away: Understanding the "Headphone Defense" and Emotionally Shutting Down
If someone you love always has their headphones in, this story will help you see what they’re actually running from, and what you can do about it.
General
How to Gift Your Avoidant Partner | 7 Gift Ideas for Birthday, Valentine's Day, Christmas
These 7 gift ideas are perfect for the avoidant partner for every occasion
General
10 Valentine’s Prompts That Help You Fall In Love Again
You can sit across from your partner, share dessert, kiss for a photo… and still feel alone. These 10 questions help you fall in love, again.
Challenges & Growth
Do This for 7 Days Before Valentine’s Day and Watch Your Relationship Change | Challenge
Try this challenge and see your relationship change.
Relationships
13 Therapist-Approved Gifts for This Valentine's Day (Science Backed)
What if your Valentine’s gift didn’t just say “I love you,” but also improved your relationship for the long-run? These 13 therapist-approved picks do more for your relationship than any heart-shaped box ever will.

App Comparisons
Attached vs. ChatGPT: Which is Right to Support Your Relationship Challenges?
Anxious attachment can feel extremely overwhelming. This post breaks down the difference between using Attached or ChatGPT to support your anxious tendencies, and when you should use each.
Relationships
Yes, Avoidants Can Change. But Not the Way You Think
But not through pressure, persuasion, or panic. Avoidants change through safety. I used to think avoidants were hopeless. That they’d never open up.
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