Love counter: how long have we been together?
Pick your start date to begin counting.
You've built something worth understanding
See your relationship blueprint in the Attached app — journaling, meditations, and tools for the hard moments, grounded in attachment psychology.
See your relationship blueprint
To find out how long you’ve been together, count from your agreed start date — most couples use the first date or the day they became official. Enter it above and the counter shows the exact years, months, and days, ticking live.
How to calculate how long you’ve been together
Counting the time you’ve shared takes three seconds — no math, no spreadsheet.
1
Pick your start date
Choose the day it began — your first date, the day you became official, or your wedding.
2
Watch it count live
The counter shows your exact years, months, days, hours, minutes, and seconds, updating every second.
3
Share it with your person
Create a private link and send it by text or WhatsApp — it keeps counting on both your phones.
Relationship milestones worth celebrating
A love counter is more fun when you know what’s coming. These are the milestones couples love to mark.
The 100-day milestone
An early favorite — 100 days in is the first "we made it" moment worth a small celebration.
The 1,000-day milestone
1,000 days together lands a little before your third year. It sneaks up on you, which is exactly why counting is fun.
Monthiversaries
New couples often count in months. The counter tracks each monthiversary so you never miss the small ones.
The anniversary of your first date
The golden one. Whether you count from your first date or the day you became official, the counter tells you exactly how many days until the next.
Want a reminder before your 1,000-day milestone? Get it in the Attached app.
Love counter apps vs. this free counter
Apps like Love Days, Been Together, and standalone counter sites do one thing well: a home-screen widget that counts your days. The trade-off is a download, an account, and often a paywall to remove ads or unlock themes. This counter is free, needs no app and no signup, and — unlike a private widget — gives you a link you can send your partner so you’re both counting the same number. Bookmark it and it’s one tap away in your browser whenever you wonder "how many days is it now?"
What keeps couples together? Start with how you attach — take the free attachment style quiz.
Marking the moment another way? You can also send virtual flowers for your anniversary, send a virtual hug, or write open when letters — all free, with a personal note.
FAQ
How do I calculate how long we’ve been together?
Count from your agreed start date — usually your first date or the day you became official. Enter that date in the counter above and it shows the exact years, months, and days you’ve been together, ticking live down to the second. No manual math required.
What is a love counter?
A love counter is a simple tool that measures how long you and your partner have been together, from a start date you choose. It counts continuously — years, months, days, hours, minutes, and seconds — and highlights upcoming milestones and anniversaries.
Do we count from the first date or from becoming official?
Either — it’s whatever the two of you agree on. Many couples count from the first date; others use the day they became official or their wedding day. Pick the label that fits and the counter does the rest.
What is the 1,000-day milestone?
The 1,000-day milestone is the day you’ve been together for one thousand days — roughly two years and nine months. It’s a favorite because it feels big and lands between your second and third anniversaries. The counter tells you the exact date and how many days away it is.
Can I share my counter with my partner?
Yes. Tap "Share your counter" to create a private link, then send it by text, WhatsApp, or any app. When your partner opens it they see the same live counter on their phone — free, no app or signup needed.
Is the love counter free?
Completely. There’s no signup, no app download, and no paywall. Create your counter, share it, and come back to it any time.